I heard someone say "I don't believe in adoption" recently. First off, you don't "believe" in it? Like you don't think it's real? Secondly, saying "I don't believe in adoption" is basically saying "I don't believe in putting my child first" or "I don't believe in giving my child a chance at a happy life". Now, I won't get into the debate about when life starts. I don't care. For the sake of this post, let's say that it's a living organism that could grow into another fucked up person. As a parent, you have the ability, nay OBLIGATION, to raise the child to be a productive member of society. If you can't do that, either through lack of common sense, a history of abuse, general stupidity, or whatever the case may be, DON'T BE A FUCKING PARENT.